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Amy's avatar

It's nice to read something on this topic that matches every conversation I've had about having kids since entering adulthood, for once. The general "pro-natalism" discourse is so insulting to women especially, implying that we make our biggest life decisions based on what influencers on TikTok say about having kids instead of because of real material concerns about caring for ourselves and any children we bring into the world.

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Angie Schmitt🚶‍♀️'s avatar

This was great and confirms my anecdotal concerns and experiences

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